Monday, May 10, 2010

Do you like BACON or the veggie/turkey equivalent? Do You Like HEAD?



Just the mentioning Bacon and Head (which is a shortened phrase for Breakfast in bed) makes me tingle a little.

Are you comfortable telling your likes and dislikes about sex to your partner? Are you able to come together in those times of sexual need?  Is your partner’s sex drive running a NASCAR qualifier, while yours remains neutral in pit lane? Welcome to Bacon and Head!  We’ll have you crossing the finish line together in no time.

First, what does Bacon and Head mean? I think a person’s two favorite things are: BACON and HEAD.  I personally believe, what could be better than having them at the same time.

As females, we are told the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. We don’t really have to stop there.  It should really be about keeping the belly full and the balls empty. 
I don’t want the ladies to think I’m all about pleasing the man, because we both know it can and should go both ways. 

All the things in this blog are based on my opinions, some research and interviewing people. The interviews will include both men and women of a variety of sexual orientations. The questions will be about what keeps them into their partners, how they get out of sexual ruts, and other questions I happen to feel like asking.

Why did I decide to do this? Well my biggest fear when it comes to committing is that the sex dies. I have seen too many long term relationships just cease to have the passion they did in the beginning. Why in the hell does that happen? Thanks for accompanying me on my journey to find out. Maybe committed relationships won’t freak me out as much.

Please feel free to post thoughts, questions (No question in the bedroom is too big or too small!), or comments to the blogs.  I am sure I am not the only one who finds this interesting.

Here’s to a life with Bacon and Head!

5 comments:

  1. Sweet! i look forward to reading what you find out. Congrats on the launch.

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  2. I feel the longer the relationship, the more comfortable you are with that person, the better the sex. Why does the sex die? IMO - peoples priorities change and they end up taking each other for granted.

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  3. Oh great point Reg! Thanks for that insight. Which that starts the question of how can we as couples keep that from happening?

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  4. in my opinion, sex doesn't die the longer you are with someone, if you are in love with that person, but i can't speak for all, only myself. i too thought sex would get old with the same person, over and over again, however, being in love with that person makes each time special and more exciting, especially if you are willing to do new things and keep an open mind about it, and i'm not talking about straying, but just spontanious acts of compassion. for myself and my wife amy, i am 16 years her senior, i find myself in the prime of my sexual endurance and capabilites, which i am synced up with her perfectly.

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  5. I agree with everything Gerald Said. I've been married for 19 years. Our sex life is better now than it was in the beginning. How can other couples achieve this? Make your partner a priority in your life, don't wait for them to do something, you be spontaneous, you initiate. We also enjoy each others company. I know alot of couples that fight all the time or just bicker at each other. That makes for No Sex!!

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